出國留學(xué)我們每個人必要的經(jīng)歷就是來到異國他鄉(xiāng)住到當(dāng)?shù)鼐用竦募抑?，你們不僅要經(jīng)歷文化沖突，還要學(xué)會客服遠(yuǎn)離家鄉(xiāng)的孤獨(dú)。下面出國留學(xué)網(wǎng)就來說說交友一百式：留學(xué)生如何勾搭寄宿家庭小伙伴?
我是在十年級的下學(xué)期轉(zhuǎn)到Plumstead Christian School的所以當(dāng)時只有一個住能夠接待我。這個住家是一個中國和越南結(jié)合的家庭而且他們家有兩個男孩，一個男孩十五一個男孩五歲。我去之前我并沒有做好充分的心理準(zhǔn)備接受這樣的住家，因?yàn)槲乙恢被孟肽芨鸢l(fā)碧眼的人住在一起。
根據(jù)我的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，住家基本上分成兩種，一種是拿你付給他們的錢賺外快的。另一種是他們把你當(dāng)成自己女兒或者兒子的，所以他們會什么都愿意為你做。我的住家是介于這兩種住家之間的。因?yàn)槲易〖叶际莵喼奕?，所以他們有點(diǎn)像典型的中式家庭。我的住家的爸爸是個中國人，他賺的錢非常的多但卻非常的節(jié)儉。
有次我?guī)兔ο床税褷€的菜葉扔到了垃圾桶里結(jié)果他撿出來洗洗又吃了。他對我和他的大兒子非常的嚴(yán)格，但是對他的小兒子十分的溺愛。我住家媽媽是個越南人，她一直想要個女孩所以她接待了我，以為她知道女孩會喜歡幫忙做家務(wù)。她非常的和善總喜歡幫我，但是她總是會說不努力就沒大學(xué)上的話。我住家的大弟弟是個天才，十五歲上大學(xué)，但是他沉迷于電腦游戲。住家小弟弟有點(diǎn)頑皮，總喜歡纏著我和他一起玩。在這樣的住家最大好處就是我經(jīng)常能吃到中國的食物，而且也不會有太大的文化差異。
雖然我與我的寄宿家庭相處的很好。但在一個期間內(nèi)我們相處不是很愉快，我慢慢調(diào)整了我的做事方式之后才改善了我們的關(guān)系。我記得那時候我忙著準(zhǔn)備考試,所以每天我并沒有時間去跟他們的兒子玩和幫他們做一些家務(wù)。
我讓我住家的媽媽開車送我和我的朋友去考托福,但我忘了申請住家爸爸的同意，讓他對我產(chǎn)生了不好的誤會。那么我們改如何解決類似的情況呢?美國人非常喜歡互送禮物，所以我常常會送他們一些小禮物來表達(dá)我的感激之情。如果有時間的話，我們要多分擔(dān)一些力所能及的家務(wù)。如果寄宿家庭有小孩，那么我們一定要和小孩相處愉快，這也是非常重要得哦!
To be international studentsthe most common experience we have to undergo is to live with host familieswhich is absolutelydifferent from livingwith ourown families. Not only wewill have culture shock but also we need toovercome our feeling of lonelinessall the time.
As for me, because I transferredto Plumstead Christian School in the middle of the school year. I was accepted by a couple made up of aChinese and a Vietnam.This host family has a five year old anda fifteen year old boy who will attend to collegeinhalfayear. At first I was so not ready to go to a host family like this. Because I used to wish I can go to a host family with blond hairandblue eyes.
Later on I found out there are basically two kindsof host family. One kind of families host your because they want the money from you. Another kind is they host you because they want to have culture diversificationand they want youtobe their son or daughter. If youarehostedby this kind of host family you are very lucky because they want to do any thing for you.
My host family is between thesetwo kinds of host families. Since they are all Asians,they are like traditional and typical Chinese families. My host dad who come from china is a very wealthy but a frugalman. One time I was washing the lettucefor salad and I threw the rotten vegetables leafinto the trashcan. He pickedup the leaf washed again ate it.
He is verystrict to me and his older son but pamperhis little son. My host momis a very nice women she hostsme because she likesdaughter and she knowsgirls are helpful. She always helpsme and teachesme a lot how to get along well with people and how to be the top student in the school. But she is very straight every thing I want to do she will call Nacel and ask whether I can do or not. My older host brother is a genius in study but he maze up because he is crazy aboutvideo game.
My little host brother is very naughtybecause his mom and dad are to pamper to him. And he always asksme to play with him. To live with this host family the benefit for me is to eat Chinese food all the time and we barely have any culture shock.
Even though I always get along well with my host family.
But at one period we did not get along very well and I learned my lesson from the experience.I remember that time I was super busy preparingfor the testsso I barely hadtime to play with their son and help them with some chore. And I askedmy host mum to drive me and my friend to the test center and she wasok with that but I forgot to ask my host dad’s feeling so hethought I took advantage from them.
How to deal with this kind of situation? Give them some gifts to show your gratitude because they always like that. Help them do the choreas much asyou can. And make their kids happy if they have little kidsin their families.