The world's most pure two things that a person's heart and soul, and everyone with a pure soul come into this world, and sublimated into a holy soul fly to heaven. However, people pure heart, after the ravages of social influence and life has become full of holes, black and blue. Although our hearts have let this ruthless world devastated mutilated, but remember no matter how much our hearts by the grievances and fight, there is always a way to make us avoid the storm, gave us a warm heart harbor in Hong Kong.
Juanniao no matter how tired, will fly back to their nest: the voyage of the ship set sail regardless of how far that will allow it to return to berthing: injured child, no matter how painful, will return to his mother's arms. Because that is the heart of the harbor them, you can make them feel at ease and happy. A person no matter how powerful he is, no matter how strong his heart, has his vulnerable side, he just did not want to let others see their own vulnerability and exhaustion.
He was only looking for a stop can make their own temporary shelter in the harbor, the harbor belongs only to his soul. Perhaps the harbor is something, something, or is someone. Like exchanges like two people together, because they are looking for the heart of their own in Hong Kong harbor, because the two sides have to make the other side feel a sense of belonging, so they are together.
Here, I feel very lucky, because I found my own heart in Hong Kong harbor.
It was a quiet night, I feel very bored, so they looked at dynamically using a mobile phone QQ space. Click on the album when I suddenly saw a strange visitor to view my graduation project, I think this is very surprising, because the general QQ friends into my space will not go to my graduation. So I was curious, so I added this strange visitor, want to talk to her chat (here add that she is my girlfriend now Xiaomei).
I added her, I asked her learning is not a mechanical design or some Professional & Machinery, she told me not. I then asked her: how could you go to my graduation design? Usually people into my space, this is not interested. She said just interested in design, they looked at. Then some of the things we talked about work, I learned that she was the personnel department of a company clerk, before worked at Foxconn, and later resigned. In this way, we considered a preliminary understanding of each other have a simple understanding.
The next time, we talked a lot on the Internet, about the work, about life, but also about love. She did not like the guy, just to find a mature man, so have more sense of security, was also more practical. I was listening to, the feeling she and the other girls do not like the other girls are like rich handsome, and she was the opposite. At that time I was just an idea that she is a very kind and very insecure girl, I want heart to care for her, love her with my life to protect her. In this glamorous world, like her good and simple girl he has been very scarce. Many girls are the pursuit of material life that money first, and so want to find a rich handsome, so that my vanity was satisfied that strong. So every day we are in the online chat, but also got to know each other with much, to be honest I thought I wanted to see what this girl dreaming.
Until one day, we as usual on the QQ chat, she suddenly said, want to marry me, looking for a thick shoulders rely on. I am more determined his ideas I want hard to care for her, love her with my life to protect her. In our chat, I received a phone call, is my family fight over. I told her that my family urged me to find a girlfriend thing, she let me tell the family that has been found, the New Year her home with me. Although only a short sentence, but I was listening to my heart is sweeter than honey, very happy. And I also hope that the New Year when, with his beloved people can go home with the New Year, perhaps this time the idea is a luxury, a distant dream, but I really want to come true. Time so day by day passed, and finally one day we met.
March 29, 2014, the day of my life will always go to collection day, because on this day, she and I met. I waited at the door of her work, her company, was feeling very nervous, standing in the doorway of her company, I feel a bit overwhelmed, do not know where to put your hands well. So for a while she got off work, I finally saw that made me who like night and day. I see her smiling out from the company, and instantly she was beautiful and captivating smile bewitched, how I want time to stop at this moment, the picture will never freeze in this moment.
Her smile is like the sun, like the soft, can infect everyone around him: her smile just like spring shoots sprout, full of hope and strong vitality: her smile is like a handful of sweet springs, people feel good. She has a flowing hair, a pair of thick eyebrows and that fresh and refined elegance. See her come out, I can not wait to greet her and waved, for fear she did not see me. When she walked into me, we greet each other a bit. Saw me, she said something very gentle hello, sorry, let you waiting. Listen, he finished, I felt so very quiet and clear, like a mountain stream flowing as quietly.
I thought that his hallucinating, I asked myself how can the world have such a nice voice it? Until I see her again, touching smile, to believe all this is true. After some pleasantries, we chat will be days, I told her it was my first time about girls, feeling my previous history is a blank, I like the emotional experience, like a piece of paper, but now met her she is colorful brush, I want her in this white paper depicts a blueprint belonging to a perfect love between us. She did not speak, just smiled at me. After we talked a lot, until hungry quack realized the dinner.
The first meeting, we came to a small restaurant, we ordered a hot and sour Dirty, dry stir green beans and a tomato egg soup. At that time the restaurant waiter asked us not to drink something, I say two bottles of Wong Lo Kat, but she said not to Wong Lo Kat, you want a bottle of coconut milk. So I told myself she does not like to drink herbal tea and soft drinks, like to drink juice. I'm glad the whole process very harmonious dining, both sides feel good. After dinner already evening, and we chatted for a while, looked at the time almost up, I was ready to ride back, she gave me the car after the home. In the car, my recollection of what happened that day, I feel God is really blessing me, but also feel very fortunate to come across such a good girl, and my heart there is an indescribable joy and happiness. My heart told me that has found that part of my heart in Hong Kong harbor.
After the first meeting, I was totally fascinated by her, are not even dreaming about her, she let me dreaming, I think I have been deeply in love with this beautiful girl.
Since the meeting with her, I have changed the whole person, the mood becomes happy, work and more sound footing, and even my style of dress has changed from the previous sports equipment into the current business casual. I have seen such a word as a man for a woman to change yourself, it shows that this man has been deeply in love with this woman. Before I still can not fully appreciate what it means, but now I have a deep insight into the true meaning of words of wisdom.
Ever since we met, every day I think of her, wanted her to wear today, what clothes, what she wanted to eat at noon today, think how well her lunch break, the afternoon to go to work every day I have no spirit to the QQ Her message, and looking forward to her reply to me in time. Although she sometimes busy, but I still want her to chat chatted. Although I told her the same city, but we still have a place to live separated by some distance, every time I see her sitting time in nearly two hours by car, so I only have time on weekends to see her .
I remember the first time I went to see her, we went to buy food, I remember when we bought a green pepper, mushroom, pork and lettuce, as well as a watermelon, she said she likes to eat watermelon, so I told in my heart herself that she likes to eat watermelon. After buying good food, we went to her place to live, and when I entered the room, when the eye is a very clean, very warm picture. She put the whole house is very clean and tidy, but they were still on the wall of some patterns and some small ornaments, wall patterns are a boy and a girl in the soft moonlight kiss, the words of the edge there forever . How sweet, how moving, how warm picture ah! I want to be and we can kiss in the moonlight, as I how happy ah.
Daze daze go, I still go back to reality, I said to her: You task today is to wait, so I do a meal, you are responsible for eating it. Then I began to cook, because I have done very little time on their own food, so commonplace for me to mention. I had a green pepper fried pork, fried lettuce, also made a fresh mushroom broth, when I put the food end of the fragrant table, just listen to her said something good incense ah, to hear his beloved people boast make their own meals incense, my heart really happy, I feel very happy. Especially watching her big chunks of my cooking and eating at the same time did not forget to say Zaba mouth delicious, my heart feel flattered, I said to myself what could be more happy than this it? That day we put meals are eaten, and I think this is for me the biggest compliment.
From that day on, I know she likes to eat green pepper pork, so I told myself that she likes to eat pork with green peppers. I think this person is not very rigid? Maybe some people would say that I do is not too rigid. But I want to say is to love a person, you should remember every word she says, she likes to remember everything, to remember her every look and smile. Love a person, he is always put her heart and intentions temperature to warm her, to care for her intentions frequency, the intention of supplies to care for her. Maybe some people here would say that she Would not cook? Also a man to cook, really lost a man's face. In fact, I want to say is that you are wrong, she will cook, and also doing very good to eat. Especially her sour Dirty, especially good, I super love to eat. There is, I would say that a man who loved to cook for yourself, it is a blessing, a blessing.
After that day, we are each other's feelings and enhance a lot, we care about each other, tell each other the truth, so we gradually came together.
In the next to get along in the process, I learned more about her. She is a dream and very independent girl, she did not want to rely on others, she rely on their own hands to feed themselves, but also to let the family a better life. These are what I admire her place, she also attracted me. He likes to read, she told me that their knowledge is too narrow, and would like to learn more knowledge, so I bought some books to her. Think of their loved ones to learn, and I very much support. Along with her these days, we gave each other to buy something, I bought a few pieces of clothing, she sent me a purse. When I got my wallet when she gave my heart feel very happy, very happy.
Because this is the first time I received from small to big people like to send me a gift. In the days of our association, we each have a fuller understanding of, for example, she likes ambitious and motivated people, not like the status quo, not to pursue people for life; she likes frank straightforward, and not like intrigue; he likes to eat bananas, kiwi, watermelon and other fruits, with the exception does not like to eat fruit is apples: red bean smoothie drink when she only likes to eat red beans, not like to drink the beverage inside blah blah. In addition she was a considerate of others, rather wronged themselves do not want to hurt her friends.
In these days, we live together, go out together watching TV, although only the weekend with the holiday that we can together, but we played very happy, I feel very happy. I remember one time we went to OCT East play, we went to see the flowers, along with a cable car ride, taking pictures along the way there is little forgot to say, she liked to take pictures. In OCT, I gave her a shot a lot of photos, according to his own feeling was still very good. Then we also went to the Great Meisha, we stood on the beach, looking at the distant vast sea, cuddling together, this feeling is indescribable happiness, I can not use words to describe. Here I am reminded of a remark willing to have a heart, white first separated.
Now late at night, and finish here. Thank God for my blessing, I met his beloved people. Here I want her (Ada) say: Thank you, Ada. Let me find their own hearts harbor in Hong Kong. I also hope that you can become able to avoid the rain, give your heart a warm haven harbor. In addition, I also want to tell you to say what is love? Love is tolerance, love is responsibility, love is happiness. Love very ordinary, but this is a luxury trivial, once you have, please cherish! Finally, everyone can find the world is willing to let you avoid the storm, to give you a warm heart of Hong Kong harbor.
這個(gè)世界上最純潔的兩樣?xùn)|西就是一個(gè)人的心靈和靈魂，每個(gè)人都帶著一顆純潔的心靈降臨到這個(gè)世界，又升華成一個(gè)圣潔的靈魂飛向天堂。然而人們純潔的心，在經(jīng)過社會(huì)的熏陶和生活的蹂躪后，已經(jīng)變得千瘡百孔、遍體鱗傷。雖然我們的心靈已經(jīng)讓這個(gè)無(wú)情世界摧殘得殘缺不全，但是請(qǐng)記住無(wú)論我們的心靈受到了多大的委屈和打擊，總有一個(gè)能讓我們避風(fēng)雨，給我們溫暖的港灣心港。 倦鳥無(wú)論有多累，都會(huì)飛回自己的鳥巢：遠(yuǎn)航的船只無(wú)論出航多遠(yuǎn)，都會(huì)返航到那個(gè)能讓它停泊的港口：受傷的孩子無(wú)論多痛，都會(huì)回到母親的懷抱。因?yàn)槟鞘撬麄冃撵`的港灣，可以讓他們感覺到踏實(shí)和幸福。一個(gè)人無(wú)論他有多么強(qiáng)大，無(wú)論他的內(nèi)心有多堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，也有他脆弱的一面，他只是不想讓別人看到自己的脆弱和疲憊。 他只想找一個(gè)能夠讓自己?？俊簳r(shí)避風(fēng)雨的港灣，那個(gè)只屬于他的心靈的港灣。也許這個(gè)港灣是某件事、某樣?xùn)|西，又或者是某個(gè)人。就像兩個(gè)人在一起交往一樣，因?yàn)樗麄兌荚趯ふ夷莻€(gè)屬于自己的港灣心港，因?yàn)楸舜硕甲寣?duì)方感覺到了一種歸屬感，所以他們?cè)谝黄鹆恕?在這里，我感覺很慶幸，因?yàn)槲艺业搅藢儆谖易约旱母蹫承母邸?那是一個(gè)寂靜的夜晚，我感覺很無(wú)聊，于是便用手機(jī)看了下QQ空間的動(dòng)態(tài)。我點(diǎn)擊相冊(cè)時(shí)，突然看到了一個(gè)陌生的訪客查看了我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)，這是我覺得很驚訝，因?yàn)橐话鉗Q好友進(jìn)我的空間都不會(huì)去看我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)。所以我很好奇，于是我加了這個(gè)陌生的訪客，想跟她聊聊天（在這里補(bǔ)充一下，她就是我現(xiàn)在的女朋友小梅）。 加了她后，我問她學(xué)的是不是機(jī)械設(shè)計(jì)或是與機(jī)械相關(guān)的一些專業(yè)，她告訴我說(shuō)不是。我接著問她：那你怎么會(huì)去看我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)呢？一般進(jìn)我空間的人對(duì)這個(gè)都不感興趣。她說(shuō)只是對(duì)設(shè)計(jì)感興趣，便看了一下。接著我們聊了有關(guān)于工作的一些事，我了解到她是一個(gè)公司的人事部文員，之前在富士康工作過，后來(lái)就辭職了。就這樣，我們算是初步的認(rèn)識(shí)了，對(duì)彼此都有了一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的了解。 接下來(lái)的一段時(shí)間，我們?cè)诰W(wǎng)上聊了很多，有關(guān)于工作的，有關(guān)于生活的，也有關(guān)于愛情的。她說(shuō)不喜歡帥哥，只想找個(gè)成熟穩(wěn)重的男人，那樣比較有安全感，心里也比較踏實(shí)。我當(dāng)時(shí)聽了，就感覺她跟別的女孩不一樣，別的女孩喜歡的都是高富帥，而她卻截然相反。當(dāng)時(shí)我心里就一個(gè)念頭她是一個(gè)很善良且非常缺少安全感的女孩，我要用心去關(guān)心她，去愛她，用我的一生去守護(hù)她。在這個(gè)紙醉金迷的世界，像她這樣善良且單純的女孩已經(jīng)很稀少了。很多女孩都追求那種金錢至上的物質(zhì)生活，所以都想找個(gè)高富帥，讓自己那強(qiáng)烈的虛榮心得到滿足。就這樣我們每天都在網(wǎng)上聊天，彼此也有了跟多的了解，說(shuō)實(shí)話我心里很想見一下這個(gè)讓我魂?duì)繅?mèng)縈的女孩。 直到有一天，我們像以往一樣在QQ上聊天，她突然跟我說(shuō)想嫁人了，想找一個(gè)厚實(shí)的肩膀依靠。我就更加堅(jiān)定了自己的想法我要用心去關(guān)心她，去愛她，用我的一生去守護(hù)她。在我們聊天的時(shí)候，我接了個(gè)電話，是我家人打過來(lái)的。我告訴她我家人催我找女朋友的事，她讓我跟家里人說(shuō)已經(jīng)找到了，過年她跟我一起回家。雖然只是短短的一句話，但是我當(dāng)時(shí)聽了，心里比蜜還甜，非常的高興。而且我也很希望過年的時(shí)候，能夠帶著自己心愛的人一起回家過年，也許此時(shí)這樣的想法是一種奢侈，一個(gè)遙不可及的夢(mèng)，但是我真的希望能美夢(mèng)成真。時(shí)間就這樣一天一天的過去了，終于有一天我們見面了。 2014年3月29日，這一天是我一生中永遠(yuǎn)都會(huì)去珍藏的日子，因?yàn)樵谶@一天我和她見面了。我在她公司門口等她下班，心里感覺很緊張，站在她公司門口，我覺得有點(diǎn)不知所措，雙手都不知道該放哪里好。等了一會(huì)她下班了，我終于見到了那個(gè)讓我日思夜想的人。我看到她從公司微笑著走出來(lái)，瞬間就被她那美麗而極富感染力的笑容給迷住了，我多么想時(shí)間就停在這一刻，畫面就永遠(yuǎn)的定格在這一刻。 她的笑容就像柔和的陽(yáng)光一樣，能夠感染身邊的每一個(gè)人：她的笑容就像春天里剛抽芽的嫩枝，充滿著希望和強(qiáng)烈的生命力：她的笑容就像一捧甘甜的清泉，讓人心曠神怡。她有一頭飄逸的長(zhǎng)發(fā)，一雙濃眉大眼和那清新脫俗的優(yōu)雅氣質(zhì)?？吹剿叱鰜?lái)，我迫不及待的揮手跟她打招呼，生怕她沒看到我。當(dāng)她走進(jìn)我時(shí)，我們彼此問候了一下?？吹轿遥軠厝岬恼f(shuō)了句你好，不好意思，讓你久等了。聽他說(shuō)完，我感覺心里非常的寧?kù)o和清澈，就像是山澗的溪流一樣靜靜的流淌著。 我以為是自己產(chǎn)生了幻覺，我問自己世上怎會(huì)會(huì)有這么好聽的聲音呢？直到我再次看到她那動(dòng)人的微笑，才相信這一切都是真的。在一番寒暄過后，我們聊了會(huì)天，我告訴她這是我第一次約女孩，我之前的感情史是一片空白，我的感情經(jīng)歷就像一張白紙一樣，但是現(xiàn)在遇見了她，她就是五彩的畫筆，我要和她一起在這張白紙上描繪出一幅屬于我們之間的完美的愛情藍(lán)圖。她沒有說(shuō)話，只是沖我笑了笑。之后我們聊了很多，直到肚子餓得呱呱叫才意識(shí)到該吃飯了。 初次見面，我們來(lái)到了一家小飯館，我們點(diǎn)了個(gè)酸辣雞雜、干煸四季豆和一個(gè)番茄雞蛋湯。當(dāng)時(shí)飯館的服務(wù)員問我們要不要喝點(diǎn)什么的時(shí)候，我說(shuō)來(lái)兩瓶王老吉，但是她卻說(shuō)不要王老吉，要了一瓶椰子汁。于是我就在心里告訴自己她不喜歡喝涼茶和汽水，喜歡喝果汁。我很高興整個(gè)就餐的過程挺融洽，彼此都感覺很好。吃完飯已經(jīng)是傍晚了，我們聊了會(huì)，看了看時(shí)間差不多了，我就準(zhǔn)備坐車回去了，她送我上了車后才回家。在車上，我回味著這一天所發(fā)生的事，感覺老天真的很眷顧我，同時(shí)也覺得自己很幸運(yùn)，遇到這么好的一個(gè)女孩，心里有一種說(shuō)不出的高興和幸福。我的內(nèi)心深處告訴我已經(jīng)找到了那個(gè)屬于我的港灣心港。 初次見面之后，我就被她完全的迷住了，連做夢(mèng)夢(mèng)見的都是她，她讓我魂?duì)繅?mèng)縈，我想我已經(jīng)深深的喜歡上了這個(gè)美麗的女孩。 自從跟她見面后，我整個(gè)人都變了，心情變得開心了，工作也更有拼勁了，甚至連我的穿衣風(fēng)格也變了，從之前的運(yùn)動(dòng)休閑裝變成了現(xiàn)在的商務(wù)休閑裝。我曾經(jīng)看到過這樣一句話當(dāng)一個(gè)男人為了一個(gè)女人而改變自己，那就說(shuō)明這個(gè)男人已經(jīng)深深的愛上了這個(gè)女人。之前我還不能完全體會(huì)這句話的意思，但是現(xiàn)在我已經(jīng)深深的領(lǐng)悟到了這句至理名言的真諦。 自從我們見面后，我每天都在想她，想她今天穿的是什么衣服，想她今天中午吃的是什么，想她中午休息得好不好，下午上班有沒有精神我每天都在QQ上給她發(fā)消息，并且盼望著她能及時(shí)的回復(fù)我。雖然她有時(shí)在忙，但是我還是希望她能跟我聊聊天。雖然我跟她同在一個(gè)城市，但是我們住的地方相隔還是有一段距離，我每次去看她的時(shí)候都要坐將近兩個(gè)小時(shí)的車，所以我只有周末的時(shí)候才有時(shí)間去看她。 記得我第一次去看她的時(shí)候，我們一起去買菜，我記得當(dāng)時(shí)我們買了青椒、平菇、豬肉和油麥菜，還有一個(gè)西瓜，她說(shuō)她喜歡吃西瓜，于是我在心里告訴自己她喜歡吃西瓜。買好菜后，我們?nèi)サ搅怂〉牡胤?，?dāng)我進(jìn)屋的時(shí)候，映入眼簾的是一幅很整潔、很溫馨的畫面。她把整個(gè)屋子收拾得很干凈，而且自己還在墻上貼了一些圖案和一些小掛飾，墻上的圖案是一個(gè)男孩和一個(gè)女孩在柔和的月光下?lián)砦?，邊上還有forever的字樣。多么甜蜜、多么動(dòng)人、多么溫馨的畫面??！我想要是我們也能在月光下?lián)砦?，那樣我該有多幸福啊?發(fā)呆歸發(fā)呆，我還是回到了現(xiàn)實(shí)，我對(duì)她說(shuō)：你今天的任務(wù)就是等待，等我做好了飯，你負(fù)責(zé)吃就可以了。說(shuō)完我便開始做飯了，因?yàn)槲覐暮苄〉臅r(shí)候就自己做過飯，所以家常便飯對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)不在話下。我炒了個(gè)青椒炒肉、炒油麥菜，還做了個(gè)平菇鮮肉湯，當(dāng)我把香噴噴的飯菜端上桌時(shí)，只聽她說(shuō)了句好香啊，聽到自己心愛的人夸自己做的飯菜香，我的心里真的很高興，感覺很幸福。尤其是看著她大口吃著我做的飯菜，并且在吃的同時(shí)還不忘咂吧著嘴說(shuō)好吃，我的心里感覺美滋滋的，我對(duì)自己說(shuō)還有什么比這個(gè)更幸福的嗎？那天我們把飯菜都吃完了，我覺得這是對(duì)我的褒獎(jiǎng)。 從那天起，我知道她喜歡吃青椒炒肉，于是我在心里告訴自己她喜歡吃青椒炒肉。是不是覺得我這個(gè)人很死板？也許有的人會(huì)說(shuō)，我這樣做是不是太死板了。但是我想說(shuō)的是愛一個(gè)人，就要記住她說(shuō)的每一句話，記住她喜歡的每一樣?xùn)|西，記住她的每一個(gè)眼神和微笑。愛一個(gè)人，就是時(shí)刻把她放在心上，用心的溫度去溫暖她，用心的頻率去關(guān)心她，用心的給養(yǎng)去呵護(hù)她。也許在這里有的人會(huì)說(shuō)她難道不會(huì)做飯嗎？還要一個(gè)男人來(lái)做飯，真丟男人的臉。其實(shí)我想說(shuō)的是你們都錯(cuò)了，她很會(huì)做飯，并且做的也挺好吃。尤其是她做的酸辣雞雜，特別好吃，我超愛吃。還有就是我想說(shuō)的是一個(gè)男人為自己心愛的人做飯，那是一種福氣，是一種幸福。 那天過后，我們對(duì)彼此間的感情又增進(jìn)了很多，我們相互關(guān)心，相互訴心里話，就這樣我們漸漸的走到了一起。 在接下來(lái)相處的過程中，我對(duì)她有了更多的了解。她是一個(gè)有夢(mèng)想并且很獨(dú)立的的女孩，她不想依靠別人，她要靠自己的雙手來(lái)養(yǎng)活自己，而且還要讓家人過上好日子。這些也正是我欣賞她的地方，也是她吸引我的地方。他喜歡看書，她跟我說(shuō)自己的知識(shí)面太窄了，想學(xué)更多的知識(shí)，于是我便給她買了幾本書。想到自己心愛的人要學(xué)習(xí)知識(shí)，我是非常支持的。在與她相處的這段日子中，我們都給對(duì)方買了東西，我給她買了幾件衣服，她送了我一個(gè)錢包。當(dāng)我拿到她送給我的錢包時(shí)，心里感覺很開心、很幸福。 因?yàn)檫@是我從小到大第一次收到喜歡的人送我的禮物。在我們交往的日子中，我們對(duì)彼此都有了更充分的了解，比如她喜歡有事業(yè)心和上進(jìn)心的人，而不喜歡安于現(xiàn)狀，對(duì)生活沒有追求的人；她喜歡坦誠(chéng)爽快，而不喜歡勾心斗角；他喜歡吃香蕉、獼猴桃、西瓜等水果，唯獨(dú)不喜歡吃的水果就是蘋果：她喝紅豆冰沙的時(shí)候，只喜歡吃紅豆，而不喜歡喝里面的飲料等等等等。另外她還是一個(gè)為他人著想，寧愿自己受委屈也不愿去傷害身邊的朋友。 在這段日子中，我們?cè)谝黄鹕睿黄鸪鋈ネ妫黄鹂措娨晞。m然只有周末跟假期我們才能夠在一起，但是我們玩的很開心，我覺得很幸福。記得有一次我們?nèi)|部華僑城玩，我們一起看鮮花，一起坐纜車，一起拍照，對(duì)了還有一點(diǎn)忘記說(shuō)了，她很喜歡拍照。在東部華僑城，我給她拍了很多照，自己感覺照得還是挺不錯(cuò)的。之后我們還去了大梅沙，我們站在沙灘上，望著遠(yuǎn)方廣闊的大海，相互依偎在一起，這種感覺是說(shuō)不出來(lái)的幸福，無(wú)法用言語(yǔ)來(lái)形容。在這里我想起了一句話只愿得一人心，白首不分離。 現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)是深夜了，就寫到這里吧。感謝老天對(duì)我的眷顧，讓我遇到了自己心愛的人。在這里我要對(duì)她（小梅）說(shuō)一句：謝謝你，小梅。是讓我找到了屬于自己的港灣心港。同時(shí)希望我也能成為你的那個(gè)能避風(fēng)雨，能給你溫暖的港灣心港。另外我還想跟大家說(shuō)一句什么是愛？愛是包容，愛是責(zé)任，愛是幸福。愛很平凡，但這種平凡卻是一種奢侈，一旦擁有，請(qǐng)珍惜！最后愿天下所有人都能找到那個(gè)能讓你們避風(fēng)雨，給你們溫暖的港灣心港。
這個(gè)世界上最純潔的兩樣?xùn)|西就是一個(gè)人的心靈和靈魂，每個(gè)人都帶著一顆純潔的心靈降臨到這個(gè)世界，又升華成一個(gè)圣潔的靈魂飛向天堂。然而人們純潔的心，在經(jīng)過社會(huì)的熏陶和生活的蹂躪后，已經(jīng)變得千瘡百孔、遍體鱗傷。雖然我們的心靈已經(jīng)讓這個(gè)無(wú)情世界摧殘得殘缺不全，但是請(qǐng)記住無(wú)論我們的心靈受到了多大的委屈和打擊，總有一個(gè)能讓我們避風(fēng)雨，給我們溫暖的港灣心港。 倦鳥無(wú)論有多累，都會(huì)飛回自己的鳥巢：遠(yuǎn)航的船只無(wú)論出航多遠(yuǎn)，都會(huì)返航到那個(gè)能讓它停泊的港口：受傷的孩子無(wú)論多痛，都會(huì)回到母親的懷抱。因?yàn)槟鞘撬麄冃撵`的港灣，可以讓他們感覺到踏實(shí)和幸福。一個(gè)人無(wú)論他有多么強(qiáng)大，無(wú)論他的內(nèi)心有多堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，也有他脆弱的一面，他只是不想讓別人看到自己的脆弱和疲憊。 他只想找一個(gè)能夠讓自己?？俊簳r(shí)避風(fēng)雨的港灣，那個(gè)只屬于他的心靈的港灣。也許這個(gè)港灣是某件事、某樣?xùn)|西，又或者是某個(gè)人。就像兩個(gè)人在一起交往一樣，因?yàn)樗麄兌荚趯ふ夷莻€(gè)屬于自己的港灣心港，因?yàn)楸舜硕甲寣?duì)方感覺到了一種歸屬感，所以他們?cè)谝黄鹆恕?在這里，我感覺很慶幸，因?yàn)槲艺业搅藢儆谖易约旱母蹫承母邸?那是一個(gè)寂靜的夜晚，我感覺很無(wú)聊，于是便用手機(jī)看了下QQ空間的動(dòng)態(tài)。我點(diǎn)擊相冊(cè)時(shí)，突然看到了一個(gè)陌生的訪客查看了我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)，這是我覺得很驚訝，因?yàn)橐话鉗Q好友進(jìn)我的空間都不會(huì)去看我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)。所以我很好奇，于是我加了這個(gè)陌生的訪客，想跟她聊聊天（在這里補(bǔ)充一下，她就是我現(xiàn)在的女朋友小梅）。 加了她后，我問她學(xué)的是不是機(jī)械設(shè)計(jì)或是與機(jī)械相關(guān)的一些專業(yè)，她告訴我說(shuō)不是。我接著問她：那你怎么會(huì)去看我的畢業(yè)設(shè)計(jì)呢？一般進(jìn)我空間的人對(duì)這個(gè)都不感興趣。她說(shuō)只是對(duì)設(shè)計(jì)感興趣，便看了一下。接著我們聊了有關(guān)于工作的一些事，我了解到她是一個(gè)公司的人事部文員，之前在富士康工作過，后來(lái)就辭職了。就這樣，我們算是初步的認(rèn)識(shí)了，對(duì)彼此都有了一個(gè)簡(jiǎn)單的了解。 接下來(lái)的一段時(shí)間，我們?cè)诰W(wǎng)上聊了很多，有關(guān)于工作的，有關(guān)于生活的，也有關(guān)于愛情的。她說(shuō)不喜歡帥哥，只想找個(gè)成熟穩(wěn)重的男人，那樣比較有安全感，心里也比較踏實(shí)。我當(dāng)時(shí)聽了，就感覺她跟別的女孩不一樣，別的女孩喜歡的都是高富帥，而她卻截然相反。當(dāng)時(shí)我心里就一個(gè)念頭她是一個(gè)很善良且非常缺少安全感的女孩，我要用心去關(guān)心她，去愛她，用我的一生去守護(hù)她。在這個(gè)紙醉金迷的世界，像她這樣善良且單純的女孩已經(jīng)很稀少了。很多女孩都追求那種金錢至上的物質(zhì)生活，所以都想找個(gè)高富帥，讓自己那強(qiáng)烈的虛榮心得到滿足。就這樣我們每天都在網(wǎng)上聊天，彼此也有了跟多的了解，說(shuō)實(shí)話我心里很想見一下這個(gè)讓我魂?duì)繅?mèng)縈的女孩。 直到有一天，我們像以往一樣在QQ上聊天，她突然跟我說(shuō)想嫁人了，想找一個(gè)厚實(shí)的肩膀依靠。我就更加堅(jiān)定了自己的想法我要用心去關(guān)心她，去愛她，用我的一生去守護(hù)她。在我們聊天的時(shí)候，我接了個(gè)電話，是我家人打過來(lái)的。我告訴她我家人催我找女朋友的事，她讓我跟家里人說(shuō)已經(jīng)找到了，過年她跟我一起回家。雖然只是短短的一句話，但是我當(dāng)時(shí)聽了，心里比蜜還甜，非常的高興。而且我也很希望過年的時(shí)候，能夠帶著自己心愛的人一起回家過年，也許此時(shí)這樣的想法是一種奢侈，一個(gè)遙不可及的夢(mèng)，但是我真的希望能美夢(mèng)成真。時(shí)間就這樣一天一天的過去了，終于有一天我們見面了。 2014年3月29日，這一天是我一生中永遠(yuǎn)都會(huì)去珍藏的日子，因?yàn)樵谶@一天我和她見面了。我在她公司門口等她下班，心里感覺很緊張，站在她公司門口，我覺得有點(diǎn)不知所措，雙手都不知道該放哪里好。等了一會(huì)她下班了，我終于見到了那個(gè)讓我日思夜想的人。我看到她從公司微笑著走出來(lái)，瞬間就被她那美麗而極富感染力的笑容給迷住了，我多么想時(shí)間就停在這一刻，畫面就永遠(yuǎn)的定格在這一刻。 她的笑容就像柔和的陽(yáng)光一樣，能夠感染身邊的每一個(gè)人：她的笑容就像春天里剛抽芽的嫩枝，充滿著希望和強(qiáng)烈的生命力：她的笑容就像一捧甘甜的清泉，讓人心曠神怡。她有一頭飄逸的長(zhǎng)發(fā)，一雙濃眉大眼和那清新脫俗的優(yōu)雅氣質(zhì)?？吹剿叱鰜?lái)，我迫不及待的揮手跟她打招呼，生怕她沒看到我。當(dāng)她走進(jìn)我時(shí)，我們彼此問候了一下?？吹轿遥軠厝岬恼f(shuō)了句你好，不好意思，讓你久等了。聽他說(shuō)完，我感覺心里非常的寧?kù)o和清澈，就像是山澗的溪流一樣靜靜的流淌著。 我以為是自己產(chǎn)生了幻覺，我問自己世上怎會(huì)會(huì)有這么好聽的聲音呢？直到我再次看到她那動(dòng)人的微笑，才相信這一切都是真的。在一番寒暄過后，我們聊了會(huì)天，我告訴她這是我第一次約女孩，我之前的感情史是一片空白，我的感情經(jīng)歷就像一張白紙一樣，但是現(xiàn)在遇見了她，她就是五彩的畫筆，我要和她一起在這張白紙上描繪出一幅屬于我們之間的完美的愛情藍(lán)圖。她沒有說(shuō)話，只是沖我笑了笑。之后我們聊了很多，直到肚子餓得呱呱叫才意識(shí)到該吃飯了。 初次見面，我們來(lái)到了一家小飯館，我們點(diǎn)了個(gè)酸辣雞雜、干煸四季豆和一個(gè)番茄雞蛋湯。當(dāng)時(shí)飯館的服務(wù)員問我們要不要喝點(diǎn)什么的時(shí)候，我說(shuō)來(lái)兩瓶王老吉，但是她卻說(shuō)不要王老吉，要了一瓶椰子汁。于是我就在心里告訴自己她不喜歡喝涼茶和汽水，喜歡喝果汁。我很高興整個(gè)就餐的過程挺融洽，彼此都感覺很好。吃完飯已經(jīng)是傍晚了，我們聊了會(huì)，看了看時(shí)間差不多了，我就準(zhǔn)備坐車回去了，她送我上了車后才回家。在車上，我回味著這一天所發(fā)生的事，感覺老天真的很眷顧我，同時(shí)也覺得自己很幸運(yùn)，遇到這么好的一個(gè)女孩，心里有一種說(shuō)不出的高興和幸福。我的內(nèi)心深處告訴我已經(jīng)找到了那個(gè)屬于我的港灣心港。 初次見面之后，我就被她完全的迷住了，連做夢(mèng)夢(mèng)見的都是她，她讓我魂?duì)繅?mèng)縈，我想我已經(jīng)深深的喜歡上了這個(gè)美麗的女孩。 自從跟她見面后，我整個(gè)人都變了，心情變得開心了，工作也更有拼勁了，甚至連我的穿衣風(fēng)格也變了，從之前的運(yùn)動(dòng)休閑裝變成了現(xiàn)在的商務(wù)休閑裝。我曾經(jīng)看到過這樣一句話當(dāng)一個(gè)男人為了一個(gè)女人而改變自己，那就說(shuō)明這個(gè)男人已經(jīng)深深的愛上了這個(gè)女人。之前我還不能完全體會(huì)這句話的意思，但是現(xiàn)在我已經(jīng)深深的領(lǐng)悟到了這句至理名言的真諦。 自從我們見面后，我每天都在想她，想她今天穿的是什么衣服，想她今天中午吃的是什么，想她中午休息得好不好，下午上班有沒有精神我每天都在QQ上給她發(fā)消息，并且盼望著她能及時(shí)的回復(fù)我。雖然她有時(shí)在忙，但是我還是希望她能跟我聊聊天。雖然我跟她同在一個(gè)城市，但是我們住的地方相隔還是有一段距離，我每次去看她的時(shí)候都要坐將近兩個(gè)小時(shí)的車，所以我只有周末的時(shí)候才有時(shí)間去看她。 記得我第一次去看她的時(shí)候，我們一起去買菜，我記得當(dāng)時(shí)我們買了青椒、平菇、豬肉和油麥菜，還有一個(gè)西瓜，她說(shuō)她喜歡吃西瓜，于是我在心里告訴自己她喜歡吃西瓜。買好菜后，我們?nèi)サ搅怂〉牡胤?，?dāng)我進(jìn)屋的時(shí)候，映入眼簾的是一幅很整潔、很溫馨的畫面。她把整個(gè)屋子收拾得很干凈，而且自己還在墻上貼了一些圖案和一些小掛飾，墻上的圖案是一個(gè)男孩和一個(gè)女孩在柔和的月光下?lián)砦?，邊上還有forever的字樣。多么甜蜜、多么動(dòng)人、多么溫馨的畫面??！我想要是我們也能在月光下?lián)砦?，那樣我該有多幸福啊?發(fā)呆歸發(fā)呆，我還是回到了現(xiàn)實(shí)，我對(duì)她說(shuō)：你今天的任務(wù)就是等待，等我做好了飯，你負(fù)責(zé)吃就可以了。說(shuō)完我便開始做飯了，因?yàn)槲覐暮苄〉臅r(shí)候就自己做過飯，所以家常便飯對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)不在話下。我炒了個(gè)青椒炒肉、炒油麥菜，還做了個(gè)平菇鮮肉湯，當(dāng)我把香噴噴的飯菜端上桌時(shí)，只聽她說(shuō)了句好香啊，聽到自己心愛的人夸自己做的飯菜香，我的心里真的很高興，感覺很幸福。尤其是看著她大口吃著我做的飯菜，并且在吃的同時(shí)還不忘咂吧著嘴說(shuō)好吃，我的心里感覺美滋滋的，我對(duì)自己說(shuō)還有什么比這個(gè)更幸福的嗎？那天我們把飯菜都吃完了，我覺得這是對(duì)我的褒獎(jiǎng)。 從那天起，我知道她喜歡吃青椒炒肉，于是我在心里告訴自己她喜歡吃青椒炒肉。是不是覺得我這個(gè)人很死板？也許有的人會(huì)說(shuō)，我這樣做是不是太死板了。但是我想說(shuō)的是愛一個(gè)人，就要記住她說(shuō)的每一句話，記住她喜歡的每一樣?xùn)|西，記住她的每一個(gè)眼神和微笑。愛一個(gè)人，就是時(shí)刻把她放在心上，用心的溫度去溫暖她，用心的頻率去關(guān)心她，用心的給養(yǎng)去呵護(hù)她。也許在這里有的人會(huì)說(shuō)她難道不會(huì)做飯嗎？還要一個(gè)男人來(lái)做飯，真丟男人的臉。其實(shí)我想說(shuō)的是你們都錯(cuò)了，她很會(huì)做飯，并且做的也挺好吃。尤其是她做的酸辣雞雜，特別好吃，我超愛吃。還有就是我想說(shuō)的是一個(gè)男人為自己心愛的人做飯，那是一種福氣，是一種幸福。 那天過后，我們對(duì)彼此間的感情又增進(jìn)了很多，我們相互關(guān)心，相互訴心里話，就這樣我們漸漸的走到了一起。 在接下來(lái)相處的過程中，我對(duì)她有了更多的了解。她是一個(gè)有夢(mèng)想并且很獨(dú)立的的女孩，她不想依靠別人，她要靠自己的雙手來(lái)養(yǎng)活自己，而且還要讓家人過上好日子。這些也正是我欣賞她的地方，也是她吸引我的地方。他喜歡看書，她跟我說(shuō)自己的知識(shí)面太窄了，想學(xué)更多的知識(shí)，于是我便給她買了幾本書。想到自己心愛的人要學(xué)習(xí)知識(shí)，我是非常支持的。在與她相處的這段日子中，我們都給對(duì)方買了東西，我給她買了幾件衣服，她送了我一個(gè)錢包。當(dāng)我拿到她送給我的錢包時(shí)，心里感覺很開心、很幸福。 因?yàn)檫@是我從小到大第一次收到喜歡的人送我的禮物。在我們交往的日子中，我們對(duì)彼此都有了更充分的了解，比如她喜歡有事業(yè)心和上進(jìn)心的人，而不喜歡安于現(xiàn)狀，對(duì)生活沒有追求的人；她喜歡坦誠(chéng)爽快，而不喜歡勾心斗角；他喜歡吃香蕉、獼猴桃、西瓜等水果，唯獨(dú)不喜歡吃的水果就是蘋果：她喝紅豆冰沙的時(shí)候，只喜歡吃紅豆，而不喜歡喝里面的飲料等等等等。另外她還是一個(gè)為他人著想，寧愿自己受委屈也不愿去傷害身邊的朋友。 在這段日子中，我們?cè)谝黄鹕睿黄鸪鋈ネ妫黄鹂措娨晞。m然只有周末跟假期我們才能夠在一起，但是我們玩的很開心，我覺得很幸福。記得有一次我們?nèi)|部華僑城玩，我們一起看鮮花，一起坐纜車，一起拍照，對(duì)了還有一點(diǎn)忘記說(shuō)了，她很喜歡拍照。在東部華僑城，我給她拍了很多照，自己感覺照得還是挺不錯(cuò)的。之后我們還去了大梅沙，我們站在沙灘上，望著遠(yuǎn)方廣闊的大海，相互依偎在一起，這種感覺是說(shuō)不出來(lái)的幸福，無(wú)法用言語(yǔ)來(lái)形容。在這里我想起了一句話只愿得一人心，白首不分離。 現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)是深夜了，就寫到這里吧。感謝老天對(duì)我的眷顧，讓我遇到了自己心愛的人。在這里我要對(duì)她（小梅）說(shuō)一句：謝謝你，小梅。是讓我找到了屬于自己的港灣心港。同時(shí)希望我也能成為你的那個(gè)能避風(fēng)雨，能給你溫暖的港灣心港。另外我還想跟大家說(shuō)一句什么是愛？愛是包容，愛是責(zé)任，愛是幸福。愛很平凡，但這種平凡卻是一種奢侈，一旦擁有，請(qǐng)珍惜！最后愿天下所有人都能找到那個(gè)能讓你們避風(fēng)雨，給你們溫暖的港灣心港。